6 Essential Tips To Writing A Better Online Dating Profile

One of the skills you might want to learn in your quest (how to seduce a girl) is writing a decent online profile.

Over the ten years I've been coaching men and women, 
I have been coaching people in all facets of dating.  
This includes coaching people in how to date Online . . . 
I've been teaching people how to date Online since it began.

I have always believed that you need a balance between 
meeting people Online and meeting people "offline," 
because nothing is ever going to work 100% of the time.  

You need to learn how to be really good at both Online and 
offline dating.  

What I've learned and realized about Online dating is that 
to be truly successful, it is essential to be able to write an 
amazing profile.  

Most men have no idea how to write a good profile.  
They write a profile from a guy's point of view.  
When a woman reads a profile like this, it actually does 
nothing to make her want to contact him.  

You need to bring your dynamic personality into your 
Online profile.  Instead of just writing "I'm an accountant 
and I love what I do," be more dynamic and say something like 

"I have always loved crunching numbers, but I do it 
creativelyso no one gets in trouble with the IRS."  

Online and offline are exactly the same - you need to be 
fun and flirtatious in both situations.  You know when you 
ask someone what they do for a living and they answer 
with "I'm a lawyer" or "I'm an accountant."  

Where do you go from there?  If you instead answer that 
question by saying "I creatively massage numbers so my 
clients don't get in trouble with the IRS," it leads to a more 
engaging follow-up conversation.  

When writing your profile, think about everything 
you're writing like a conversation.  If the "conversation" 
you're writing would be interesting in person, then you've 
done a good job of profile writing.  

If not . . . then you need to keep re-writing your profile.  

Your Online dating profile is as important as putting up 
good pictures.  Women want to be able to get excited about 
contacting you.  If you're just throwing up some information 
and expecting women to respond to your profile, you will fail in 
Online dating.  

Online dating is extremely competitive.  The men who 
have the best profiles are the men who consistently get dates.  
The men who know how to write clever emails to get 
a woman's attention will consistently get the dates.

With that in mind, here are my six essential keys to writing 
a winning profile:

1. Your profile must create emotions.  Instead of writing 
"I love to travel and see new places," try writing it this way: 

"Traveling is my passion.  Whenever I take a trip to 
another country, I learn something new about myself 
and I appreciate my life even more.  

When I was in Thailand checking out the Buddhist temples, 
I was able to not only see history but feel history."  
What this does to a woman reading this profile, is create 
an emotional attachment.  

When you write about your love of travel as a story, she can 
picture visiting Thailand or traveling with you.  If you just 
describe something by putting it in a list, you're not going to 
create an emotional attachment for her.  

Women are emotional beings, and they are the ones who 
will be reading your profile.  So learn to create stories when 
describing your passions.

2. Don't say in your profile that "My friends say I'm a 
wonderful person."  I've seen men do that countless times.  
You don't let women know you're great by telling them 
that your friends think you're great.  

This doesn't tell a woman anything.  She doesn't know who your 
friends are, so you are better to talk about things you love to do.  
This allows women who read your profile to think you're great 
. . . which is your objective.  

For instance, a client of mine volunteers at a homeless shelter 
once a week.  So in his profile he wrote "My Saturdays are my 
favorite day of the week.  

I volunteer at the local homeless shelter and spend three 
hours helping others feel better about themselves."  Something 
like this shows a woman what type of person you are
 . . . and that is what she wants to see.  

3.Don't tell women in your profile that you're funny - 
show them WHY you're funny.  For instance, I live in 
Los Angeles and I hat the traffic there.  So, in my Online profile, 
I wrote: 

  "Just when you think you've seen everything in LA, you get on 
  the 405 and see someone driving 80 mph texting and 
  plucking their eyebrows at the same time.  
  Now that's something I need to learn!"  

What you're doing is making fun of yourself and making a joke.   
As a guy, you don't pluck your eyebrows . . . you may text, 
but you don't pluck.  

Women are attracted to humor.  So get a woman to laugh when 
she reads your profile, because your profile should get her to 
feel like she's flirting with you in her head.  

4. Never say in your Online profile how confident and successful 
you are.  Women hate men who brag about themselves.  It actually 
turns them OFF.  

They are, however, extremely attracted to very confident men.  
So instead of bragging about yourself, say something like 
this: 

"I've worked really hard in my life to become who I am.  	
Every time I've fallen down, I've dusted myself off, checked 
out my wounds, gotten up and tried again.  

Being successful to me means having the freedom to do what
I want . . . which of course is having time to hang out with you.
" By saying something like that, you're telling a woman that you're 
successful but humble.  

You're also throwing a little bit of humor in there which also helps.

5. As for photos on your profile, they MUST be clear, up close, 
and recent.  Women need to see your eyes, so it's really important 
that you are not wearing sunglasses in most (if not all) of your photos.  

It is also essential that you choose pictures that show your face 
and your body, so women can see what you look like overall.   

Your pictures are part of what makes or can ruin a good profile.  
Your pictures should also help to create a feeling of emotion inside 
a woman.  

Don't put up pictures on your profile of you and your buddies 
drinking or any picture where you can't see your eyes. 

Stay away from pictures of you and your buddies drinking.  
Women are not looking to hang out with a frat boy.  
They don't want to hang out every Friday night in a bar sucking 
down shots with you and your buddies.  

Instead, why not put up a picture of you volunteering, 
or how about a funny picture of you cooking for a dinner party?  

Put up pictures that show that you have interests in activities 
other than alcohol consumption.  A woman wants to know 
you are fun and social, but she also wants to be able to picture 
having a good time with you.  

Choosing a picture of you biking in Italy, therefore, meets 
this desire and will create emotion in women.

Women are not looking for a partner in crime on a bar stool . . . 
they are looking for a partner in crime in life.  Those drunken 
pictures will turn women off, not turn them on.  

Women want a man . . . not a manboy.  So look through all 
your pictures and select ones that will paint a picture of who 
you are as a person.  This includes putting up photos of you in 
different life situations.  

For instance, you may put up one picture of you in business 
attire, one picture of you in play mode, and one picture of you 
with your dog.  

Also, try to include clear photos that show you participating in 
your favorite activities, such as hiking, biking or playing tennis.  
Just make sure not to select "distance shots" showing you at the 
top of the mountain but in which you are too small to see clearly.  

Use only close up shots here so women are able to see YOU. 

Your pictures should show women all the different sides of you, 
and the pictures of you that you put up on your profile should 
represent who you are at this stage in your life.  

So what I suggest is that you have a friend of yours take some 
new photos of you.  If you write a fantastic profile, but your 
pictures don't match, a woman will be disappointed when 
she meets you. 

6. Be honest in your profile!  A lot of men will massage the truth 
in their profile.  The major problem that occurs when men are 
less than honest occurs after you've gone out on a date with a woman.  

She will go back after the date and re-read your profile to see 
if there are any discrepancies.  It's almost like she is looking 
to see if you're as real as you appear to be.  

So make sure everything you write in your profile is totally 
representative of who you are right now in your life.    

Your profile is designed to help women form an opinion about you.
Written correctly, your profile will entice her to contact you
immediately.

Women re-read profiles over and over again because they want
to get to know who you are and they want to get excited about
meeting you.

The more you put in your profile that expresses your personality,
the easier it is for a woman to decide to email you because
she'll have a better idea of what to talk about with you.

If you ever look at the women who have viewed you, you are
looking at women who will contact you, email you and who
will read your profile over and over again - even after she meets you.

That's why being honest in your profile is so very important.

Online dating is very competitive.  In order to stand 
out amongst the sea of men who are Online, you need 
to invest the time necessary to create a great profile.  

While a great profile is essential to successfully dating Online, 
it is also only one piece of the equation.  Another day I'm going 
to write a piece that will give you five fantastic ways to grab 
her attention in the very first email.  

While you're pondering today's newsletter, I want you to 
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To lasting dating success,

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